lol.. vash you're right about that. obviously, it's not spanking

sandy, you should have thought about the consequences BEFORE you did the deed. not AFTER. i am sure you very well know how your parents or your culture view such acts so you should have foreseen what was to happen after you gave up your virginity and told your parents about it.

i guess your family is conservative (as mostly asian families are) judging with the way they reacted. but still, i think the decision is with you and your guy. is he even ready or willing to go through it? seems like he doenst even know about it yet. what about you? are you also ready or do you think it's right for you to get married just because your parents are saying so?