By the way...I have try to discuss with him already.But he suggest me that we date for another 2 or 2 and a half year only will marry me.He say he will take responsibility.He will have a think first.At the same time...He did not have enough money to support for our marriage right now...For asia country tradition...The girl who have give up the virginity to her beloved one.The guy of the girl partner have to take a resposibility to take care the girl in the future...But now my parent feel I am ruined already.My parent dislike to delay our long terms relationship.My parent advice us better to get ready up for our marriage...