Yeah.., that's the most important thing.., there's really NO REASON to be dishonest.., because you know what? If you can't be yourself around her at the end of the day.., or be completely comfortable with no secrets to hide.., then you might as well not even date her.., which means.., you might as well not even bother.., so there's really no point in being dishonest..

An other talking point.., hopefully you'll get a feel of what good & juicy talking points are.., is girl-humor..

I like what D'Angelo had to say about it..,

"A lot of guys think that the nice thing to do.., is to be nice.., that's what guys think.., do you know what women think? I can control this guy.., I tell him I want this.., he gets it.., I tell him to do that.., he does it.., I act upset.., he comforts me.., I act angry.., he shuts up.., I own him.. And i'll tell you something else that's interesting.., when women meet a man who they can control.., they have two options that go off in their mind.., the first one is to run the hell away.., just get as far away from this unattractive nice guy loser wussy wimp as possible.., the second one is.., marry him"

Obviously.., you don't want to use the word "control" or "push-over" (unless she brings it up).., but you can casually mention how you think it's interesting how the one thing that both guys and girls agree on is that they don't like anyone who's "nice".., guys don't like nice girls.., and girls don't like guys that are too "nice".., (it's really ok if you have something more to add to that statement to make it more complete.., that's the point.., to spark conversation)

Then.., you can tease her halfway through.., and say that you definitely don't think you could ever see yourself going out with someone like her.., she's just "too nice".., you see her more as "friend".., and the part I love.., is.., what always happens..

Her: haha! me.., nice.., you're funny.., well.., you're just saying that because you don't know me well enough yet.., i'm not always this nice.., I can be really bad sometimes

(don't be afraid to ball-bust.., just do it.., know when to stop of course.., but don't stop too early.., keep going.., just realize when it's time to stop.., if you stop too soon.., it never gets to the point where it's playful teasing & flirting.., if you stop too late.., it gets to be borderline insulting to her character.., you've been warned)

You: Really? Like what? Did you do something illegal like walk your dog without a leash or something? (laugh) It's ok.., there's nothing "wrong" with being "nice".., I think it's good that you're nice.., you don't want to be a b*tch do you?

Finally.., if she's very attractive.., and you can smell ego on her part from a mile away.., then PLEASE.., PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE.., LJBF her.., keep telling her how she's such a nice "friend".., how you like the "friendship" you both have.., it's good to finally meet someone you can be such good "friends" with.., how you just want to be perfectly clear and let her know from now.., that she's "just a friend" ok?

(OK.., what crack is GrkScorp smoking.., and where can I get some? Remember.., the part about smelling ego on her part? If she's secure or worse.., has low self-esteem.., then it should be obvious that this is NOT something you want to do.., but if she is a little full of herself.., either because she's very popular in her class or some 10 desperate losers are chasing her and showering with attention that her ego can almost get a high off of.., then you MUST LJBF her.., it pisses egotistic women off like no tomorrow.., because it brings their ego down from the clouds.., and back to reality.., to them.., it sounds something like this.., "wtf does he mean HE just wants to be friends only with ME? He's not interested in me? Every guy is interested in me.., i'll show him.., i'll fix this.. it won't be long until he likes me too.., and then he'll just be an other member of my fan club")

Am I in a Fake relationship?!?

Best,

GrkScorp

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