I'm still sorta new to the whole "sex" thing and so is my gf. She is still nervise about sex and I don't want to do it unless she wants it. She always says that when it happens it will happen.
But here is my problem. It has been about 2 months since we have done it (yea I know its a long time) and I still don't know how to turn her on. I have asked her sevral times and she avoids the topic. I would love to know how to turn a woman on without removing any clothes. I have tried slowly kissing her from her neck to her lips, softly biting, playing with her hair, giving her compliments. I wouldn't mind "getting a bit more"

. I think it would help release some stress between the both of us (as in work and day to day problems)...
Anyone with some tips/pointers please help... cheers