lol its so funny reading everyone saying its the double standard
i dont believe this for 1 minute..well thats a lie ofc it crossed my mind...but there are other explanations.
A few weeks ago, A and I spoke about relationships and he wasn't ready for one. I wasn't either. But after that, he kept contacting me to hang out and etc. Why did he do that?
the guy must like you...and because you told him that your not ready for a relationship then hes not gonna hit on you...so what hes doing is keeping you close til he knows you are ready so then he can make his move
I just broke up with my ex a month ago and was still kind of fragile. I cried on A's shoulder and spent some time with him talking about it. He tried to get information out of my friend about how I feel about my ex now. Does he care enough for it to be more than a casual thing?
yes i think so.again because he likes you hes letting you know that hell be there for you when you need him hence he was there for you when you needed a shoulder to cry on.hes asking your friend about your feelings for your ex...isnt this enough to tell you what hes feeling for you..if it was just sex he was after then it wouldnt cross his mind what you felt about your ex.
He tries to charm me but he still talks about other girls in front of me. Am I being treated as a friend? Or is he hoping that I would be jealous?
neither in my opinion...hes trying to show you that that he likes you ,this is where the charming comes in,but at the same time...maybe hes not feeling the vibes from you or maybe just cos he knows your not ready for another relationship hes breaking it up by talking about other girls so you dont think hes too serious about hitting on you.just a bit of light flirting of you ask me.
see i believe that when it comes to love and relationships wether sexual or deep or whatever that humans revert back to their natural state..i mean way back.just by saying how hes acting,its easy to determine whats going on in his head.we really are simple creatures.try not to read too much into what hes saying or doing,remember what ive said and just think about it next time he acts like it and youll see what i mean...
