But I want to be with this girl more than ANYTHING.... with that in mind, do I have to keep distance lol? Or can I just pretend like nothing happened, cause we are really good friends... and yea she IS flaky, but I'm telling you there are like 5 guys that like this girl, me included... and im the only one she's done anything with (hoping its not because she doesnt know other guys feel same way as me... but she is smart). ANYWAY, does getting out of a 5 year relationship really make someone unwilling to get into another relationship?