1. Is my mother’s anger the reason my relationship fell apart? your mother is only presenting you with the logical answer. if your bf have a say to his parents now, what makes you think that things will be different 4 years down the road? i bet they would have his nuts tied so tight that he wouldn't dare to move out until he was engaged.

1. Did I sleep with him too soon? Did I take enough time to get to know him? i don't give a f*ck if you slept with him or not. you didn't mention anything in your post about this so why do you bring it up? however, if you slept with him after just a few days of chatter, then i'm also an energetic person that loves the gym. secondly, why the hell does this matter?? you can't take back the sexual sessions that you already had.

1. Did his family pressure him to break up with me? Or did he make his own decision? this is probably the dumbest part that i read in your entire post. so what if you're only a year... ONE DAMN YEAR.... older than him. his excuse was pretty weak being that he had to mention his sister was the same age as you. one year is no freaking difference in age. it's more like a mere few months if you ask me.

1. Did he act romantically with the other woman so I will forget him? no... he is simply rubbing this lust in your face. i would do this is you didn't want to forget about me.

1. How can he forget 2 years of romance so easily? i could... hey, maybe you're not the victim here and maybe you were a shitty gf. i dunno, but there are always two sides to the coin and i dunno any of you so i can't judge. personally i could forget 4 years of my life if i dated a total bitch. then again if i met a more magical woman, i'd call my girl right there to dump her ass. yes, guys can be a dick too.

1. How can I forget him? i'm single... duh, you have to figure this one out on your own. life is never simple.

1. My mother told me to get another boyfriend to get revenge on him. Why be sad and depressed while he is out there happy and joyful with a new woman? f*ck revenge... it would only cause you to let him linger in your thoughts. move on already and forget the past. quit this job if you have to. easier said than done right?? f*ck no, i quit my job before just to be the gentleman and let the girl keep her job.