The manner of the break-up isn't so cool - were I in her shoes, time would've been ireelevant - I would've told him see you later. However, not everyone can handle hurting someone and sometimes it's easier to just ignore them until they figure it out. (In other words, apparently I am mean!)

There is nothing wrong with wanting to take some time and move slowly - you have been speaking with this girl for just a few weeks - take your time. Wait until you are person when you can look in her eyes and feel where she is coming from. There is nothing wrong with any of those things - I assure you.

Follow your instincts - as they will very rarely lead you astray.

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I think the mistake a lot of us make is thinking the state-appointed shrink is our friend. - Jack Handy