Originally Posted by
tooxshort
I don't think the romance film is necessary ... Actually, I don't think you need to do much more than be yourself and hang out like normal. Don't make it such a dramatic event. You will be disappointed if you try too hard.
Lube or no lube? Hmmm ... You can get some just in case and ask her if she's a good self-luber. Basically, just talk to her and have her guide you and guide her back. And I'm sure you'll have plenty of chances to make up for whatever mishaps may occur!
Good luck!
I personally hate condoms. My girlfriend and I tried, but she kept getting dry, and the lube didn't help much. In fact, when I used lube, I couldn't feel it anymore.
But I'm in a steady relationship, so that won't really work for the OP. I'm just saying that sometimes condoms can cause issues. I think that different condoms are better for different people. It might be best to experiment with some of the ones you bought to see if you think they'll work. It's not like you'll use the whole box in one weekend.
And if you get lube, I reccomend astroglide.