Prodigal,

Sorry to say, you'd make a bitter monk. You'll remeber the cause why you choose to go that way and it would not be honest to yourself.

Check you assesst as a male: what you got? what qualities?
Do you get enough to be accepted by females? Better tell about what you have done, how many women you approached, what they look like, read, talk, discuss, try new approaches, than think about monks and stuff.
I guess this forum is mostly to help people with love, not with other life vocations.
Keep the topic, elaborate, tell us what you have done?