If your husband didn't masturbate it would be really, really weird. It's not that he doesn't want you, he just needs a wank. It's completely different from having sex. Remember, he was having sex with himself long before you entered the picture and his hand's not jealous of you...

How in the world does this come up, though? Is he doing it in your bed, laying next to you? If so, that's ****ed up and it has to stop. Masturbation is private- you should stay out of it and he should have the decency to do it when you're not around.

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I think all women really want is to be proven wrong about men.