Damnn-ok shes obviously more interested in hanging out with her friends right now which might not be a good sign. BUT if you've made plans with her and shes agreed to those plans and now has changed her mind-well umph to ya gal-what is the girls deal anyway? I dont understand some of things she's doing-the games and stuff here-and this maybe another one-and or to test your limits.

Honestly-I wouldnt deal with this much longer-because if her actions continue on this path shes not respecting you-and you deserve better than that-dont allow her to walk on you-it sounds like shes been doing this more often here nameless-man Im usually an optimist when it comes to certain things but shes showing all of the signs of not wanting a serious relationship-more of will you be around when I want you to-

Ya know what? Heres my suggestion-you can take it or leave it and someone else may have better ideas, but I think you should totally not talk to her and or deal with her-yes youre pissed off to the max and yes you do need some cooling off time before dealing directly with her-but when you get your wits back-THEN you should talk to her and lay it on the line-NO MORE F*CKN BULLSHIT! Youve had enough and you need to express to her what it is you see in this relationship that is lacking-and what you want out of it. DONT scrutinize the hell out of her-ty to point out if any positive things about her-( from what you've said doesnt sound like shes stable right now) anyway find something and try NOT to attack her. Come from YOUR standpoint in this relationship. Let her know youre not the kind of person that wants this kind of relationship and youd like to be with someone who WANTS to share their time together, etc you get the idea!

If you pay attention to her body contact and her eyes and listen to her you'll know if you want to stay in this or say "F*CK IT" and move in...but dont let her walk on you! Be the person you are and dont change that just to keep her or anything cause its not worth this mental anguish she's putting you through right now-

Best of Luck and keep us posted!!

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