Originally Posted by jslaughter
So women's (maybe people's but definately women) peception is a strange thing - - she may be a super model like Killa and not feel like she's up to par. Make sure you remind her.
Oh, I do and trust me, I LOVE telling her things like that because it really is coming from me. I don't flatter just to BS and make someone giggle or something. My friends all say she's the hottest girl i've dated but I don't look at her like that. Of course I find her physically attractive and alluring, but it's like I can say endless things complimenting her about just who she IS and how she makes me feel. I don't think there's ever any substitute for a kind word about someone's personality/heart as opposed to just physical features. But I do comment on those too.
Like when I told her that "I don't need the moon if I have you to light my way through the night." and if that was the whole conversation and I hung up, that would've been enough for her to be satisfied. I like to tell her one good thing about her every day that we talk. Even little things like saying "You have such a big heart for taking the time to make those children smile and their eyes twinkle under your kindness."
She goes nuts when i'm just honest about what I see in her. I don't even have to say something about her directly, but you understand.
The women I have loved in my life, I never NEVER get tired of trying to make them laugh, smile, and feel good about who they are and how I feel about them, even when times are bad. I can be pessimistic, but when i'm with someone I love, i'm an optimist to a fault.
