| Hey Claire,
It really sounds to me like the guy is stringing you along. I think a part of him must enjoy having someone adore him so much and he may not mind having a sort of "back up" in case his relationship doesn't work out. I know this may sounds harsh, but if you've told him how you feel and he doesn't want to be with you, then you have to realize that you shouldn't waste your time. Understand that you deserve an open, honest relationship with someone who is going to fall head-over-heels for ya... don't wait around for some guy to "change his mind" about how he feels... no one is worth it! By all means be his friend.. but don't let him play with your emotions... it's all in your hands
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~elli |