The point that I was making about average height was that the average human male, not the average man from northern Europe, is about your height. I know that in Holland and Germany it is about 5 '11, in England it is about 5 '9 and in France about 5 '8, but the average man in say China (1/5th of the World's population) or India (another 1/5th) is considerably smaller. I did say that it'd be of little consolation.
I'm sorry that you get the impression of revulsion from women. That must be a pretty horrible experience
. The fact is that women have a much easier playing field than men and can be pickier as a result. They soon realize though that they have to consider more than looks. Women are very similar to teenage males. They will not be attracted immediately to women who are not stunning, but they usually end up with that type because psychological comfort and compatibility are much more important in the long-term than superficial attractions. You just need to get past the first stage - getting to know them. If you aren't attractive physically, then your first approach to women should not be a romantic one, because they will judge you upon what they know at the point of approach, which is the immediate (and bad according to you) physical impression that you give them. My best advice to you is to acquire as many female friends as possible, be patient, and then something will probably happen. I hope something does happen for you.