Originally Posted by
clearskies 
What i have seen from personal experience is that good people attract losers and twisty guys! Naive frank faithful loyal attract cheaters, jobless miser liars..
Starbuck, I share with you what you feel now. Wish you good luck in the future relationship. I do say that to myself too.
Actually, clearskies, not all my past relationships have been with jerks per se, just people who weren't right for me. My ex before the sloth was one of the sweetest guys on the planet, but still not right for me for various reasons.
That being said, I know that the answer to the problem is within me, and that these are patterns that I can fix.