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Prodigal · #9 (**permalink**) 06-07-04, 07:55 AM

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Originally Posted by eyesoulatedMIND

when i said "nice guys" i did not mean those nerdy guys who will be a slave to a girl and would do every single thing and the type that bugs every day. What I meant for "nice guys" for example: treating the girl right, not adding to her problems because she already has a lot of it, being understanding, being there whenever she needs someone to talk to about problems(family, friends etc) wussy?? okay... go out with a real man that would treat you as if you are just another piece of a$$, someone who will have stupid nonsense idiotic arguments, some guy who will talk like :where da f*ck you at b*tch?", or someone that will stack more problems... if you get a kick out of that then good for you....

I know what you mean. I am one of those guys (what you described, not the 'slave'). It seems as if you are one of them too. I think that very few girls want guys like us anymore (did they ever?). It's just some fairy-tale story. Almost all girls don't seem to want that. They SAY that they want that, but the guys that most of them pick don't seem to follow. What does it show? Probably that most say one thing and do another, at least in this case. So the guys are assholes, are perverted and think primarily about having sex when it comes to relationships, and don't treat the women right. And the women fall for these kinds of guys (maybe it's because they think that they can change this guy into someone 'good'?). It makes the nice guys want to be more 'bad ass', more people turn into assholes, more people get hurt... it's a vicious cycle. It's why I've lost faith in this world.