Before I go into the issue at hand, let me just say that I didn't ever group all girls into what i've said. I've simple said that there are too many girls who fall under this "spell" that the bad asses cast.
Originally Posted by Breezy18
Okay, I GOTTA step in here. It seems to me that you are lumping all girls into one category here when really it may be just the girl you seem to be enamoured with at any given time isn't interested in you, so you just chalk it up to her not wanting the nice guy.
I think now you are the one trying to lump these guys into a single group. You are trying to say that ALL guys who think that girls fall for bad asses, only think so because the girls we are interested in, aren't interested in us. Kinda hypocritical don't you think... accusing of of lumping girls into groups when you just grouped all of us together
Originally Posted by Breezy18
I'm sure there are many girls out there that would LOVE to give you 'nice guys' the time of day, but for one reason or another you aren't interested in her. Girls have the same problem guys. Cut them some slack. It's like saying all guys go for skinng, big breasted blondes! It's insulting and is not a fair assessment of men in general. Just like girls are only attracted to guys that treat them like assholes isn't fair.
Never did we say that ALL girls are ONLY attracted to assholes. We only said that there are a LOT of girls who are. That's not being unfair, its just a true problem.
Originally Posted by Breezy18
It's the same as anything else in life; love is an enigma. It creates frustration and anguish. BUT it can also create euphoric feelings that delight both body and mind. Finding the right one is trial and error, but when you DO find that one, you'll wonder why you were ever thinking such nonsense before.
Ok, well in my case, I'm with someone I love very much. Does that mean that all i've said here, I will later think is nonsense? I think not.
Oh, and one last request before I end this post. Please don't try to turn this into battle of the sexes. I'm just not in the mood right now.