sometimes it's kinda boring for the guy to be in control. it's like, no surprise at all. most of the time, when a girl/woman does something unexpected, it makes me that much more excited. but when I want something done, i guess it's impossible but i want her to read my mind. or at least have sex with me enough times to know what i want. verbal sex is okay but she and i should know what the other wants. equal oppurtunity sex is good.
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