dude, you're looking at it all wrong. of course girls are going to leave the guy if they have enough confidence in themselves to be their own women. what matters is how you treat her now. ya, she can get all skinny and care about her body and then all these guys will give her all the attention. but if you treat her just right, she'll stick with you. sooner or later, her body will change, but not because of how active she is or shit like that but she'll change depending on how much she wants to change. don't go out with her hoping to last forever, just enjoy your time with her. you're thinking way too far in the future. you don't know what she wants later on, you only know what you want from her. if she's pretty, she's pretty. you have to picture her as the prettiest in your eyes and if she's ugly to someone else, so what? if she's ugly to you, then kick her off the home team. there's something about her that makes her very pretty to you. you're finding a way to make her look like she's not the one by choosing her weight? that's all good and everything but you'll regret it later. the best thing you can do is to get it into her head that SHE needs to want to be skinny. that will make it easier than slyly having her play sports with you and getting more fit, she might head to a Burger King after the game...who knows. just do what you can to show her how you feel.

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