OMG RATFISH WTF? Alrighty Im assuming here that she's utterly confused herself. Maybe she does have a boyfriend is seeing where this could go with you. This sucks so bad Ratfish-wait til Jules and Breezy read this one. Im throwing in my two cents cause I really thoght this was a good thing for you here so here I go:

1. Shes got a shitty boyfriend and does want to see you, talk to you,etc. If you REALLY like this girl DONT change what youre doing-she'll see the potential boyfriend material you are...

2. Gotta throw this is in too: if she does have a boyfriend and say she dumps this guy-you two hook up-are you not going to have worries that she would do this to you?

Damnit-damnit damnit-this does throw a wrench into things. Ok-so call her on the carpet about it tomorrow, you HAVE to know for sure, but dont sound insecure about it. Just talk casually as always-and somehow fit that question in that conversation-she knows youre interested in her and if she has feelings for you she SHOULD come clean and let you know whats going with her.

You have the power here and have the ball in your court-this is the good thing-you have choices here-you can stick this out and hopefully she'll bail out on the crappy boyfriend-or you could say screw this its not worth sending anymore flowers!

I do wish you the best Ratfsih-this sucks I know...but hang in there-something will change for you-something good has to come out of it for ya!!!

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