Originally Posted by Soulkiss_29
Basically Satch - If she doesn't want you back, then that means it's all your fault - it's not her, it's you! I mean, you know that she is perfect in every way, so if she doesn't want you back, it must be because there is something wrong with you. You just not being nice enough or trying hard enough.
So try harder with the letters and at being super nice or even try acting sappy and gay, if that's what it takes. Women love it when guys are like that. Try that out and let us know how it goes!
Good Luck!!!
Soulkiss
soulkiss, maybe you havent been down this road, but its very immature to just "get over her" "she doesnt want you back" well if thats what she wants, all he is looking for is some closure on this matter, if there is hope for them, or if it is completely over. If he hears those words from her like "get over me" or "i dont want you back, i dont love you" then that would probably be my que to start getting over it, but until then you have no other reason to belive there still isnt hope for you two! keep going for it!
but i do agree with soulkiss's comment on dating other girls, try dating a girl that is cute and funny or something (but you would never really get into a relationship) date another girl just for a little bit, and let on a little to your ex that you are dating again, and she what she acts like, you can sometimes indirectly tell how a girl is feeling about you. If she feels "happy for you that you have gotten up, and started dating and getting on with your life" that would be a "no she doesnt want me back" but if when you tell her you are dating and she is like "oh.....thats..nice
" then you can kinda tell she still has feelings for you!
i hope all turns out well keep us posted!!
brandon