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Old 16-08-04, 05:45 PM
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Things just won't be quiet.
Yesterday she was on another party with her friend. (It was some local 3 day festival)
We exchanged few messages I'd like you to see.

Note that this is a translation from Croatian language so some things sound differently
in English but the meaning is very similar.

Ex G/F:
> Hey. Where are you? We're at the festival. It's perfect. Why don't you come?

(I didn't respond)

Ex G/F:
> (calls me but I don't respond)

Her friend:
> Why aren't you answering her calls? She's crazy!
> She loves you and wants to be with you at least for one night.
> I'm probably crazy too for telling you this, but it's true.
> She LOVES you.

Me:
> I'm not answering becouse one night means nothing to me.
> As far as I remember, we broke up, and she confirmed it on tuesday.
> If she wants to be with me, she will have to say it to me in person and sober.

Friend:
> She's not drunk. She wants to see you! I think she wants you for more than one > night.
> You have to come! Don't miss that chance if you care.

Me:
> If she really loves me than this love will last until tomorrow.
> I'm sick and tired of her games, and me running after her like a complete jackass.
> When she decides, she can let me know. Until then, I don't need some part-time
> relationship.

Friend: (one or two hours after my last message)
> I don't understand her either and I don't know what is going on in her head.
> Sorry, but she's crazy! I'll check with her tomorrow to see if she's serious
> about this.

Now I'm wondering if I did the right thing.
I feel good about my self for letting her know how I feel but I don't know if I was
too "rough" to her.

Should I reamin silent until she contacts me or should I have another talk with her?
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