"to date a person with a disablity is solely on personality" (sorry I don;t know how to use the quote thingy).

So when you say this are you saying that if a person dates someone with an apparent physical disability that they wouldn't be physically attracted to that person and that personality and wit and all that would be the only basis for dating them? I'm just making sure I understand what you're saying. I think that your response was VERY honest, and I appreciate that!