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well if i see that two people are together and one of them is disabled, it might or might not be based on personality. i'm saying that unless a women has become disabled after we started a relationship and it was really serious, then it would be very hard for me to see past that disablity. it takes a lot to help out disabled people, my grandmother had cut off one of her legs and it was really hard on the family. given that we didn't spend every day with it, it was a bit easier for us. dating someone with a disability has huge responsibilites and brings a lot of hardships for both people.
i think that more so, it would also be very emotionally draining. the other person is going through a lot of changes in their life, and a lot of stress will follow. and basically to test the waters with a girl so see if i'm compadible with her, is a risk that i would not want to take. raverboy
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