So, Illusional, I guess my question to you is what if the person has had this disability all their life- such as a birth defect like Spina Bifida- and they weren't dealing with emotional stresses from it? If it was just a part of their every day life and they were already used to it, what then? If it wasn't emotionally draining on that person or yourself what do you think?

Obviously this is completely speculation since most of the people here probably haven't been faced with this situation. But I'm simply curious. And I don't think anyone here sounds superficial, because really you don't know for sure until you're faced with it.