The other night I was out with friends and I got to talking to the bartender. He mentioned how he's always seeing these beautiful women come in with a mediocre guy on their arm but never sees it the other way 'round. I don't know about that myself, but I answered that perhaps it is because men are visual animals and women are more cerebral. Meaning, a man is turned on more by the way a woman looks; how she walks, flips her hair, smiles, or is dressed whereas a woman is stimulated by intriguing conversation and a strong mind. What do you all think? The guy sitting next to me disagreed. He said that a girl could be a real knock out but with nothing upstairs, it's just not worth his time. I agreed, but said that initially a guy is turned on by visual stimulation. It isn't until AFTER he gets to know her that he decides whether she's worth dating on an ongoing basis. But a mediocre girl sitting next to the "knock out" hasn't got a chance.