You said it R! But I still let the "attractive" male do his thing. I give him the chance like everyone else to intrigue me and if he does not, I move on. Mostly though, you are right. Stunning attractiveness in males, (or females for that matter) usually coincide with an exaggerated opinion of oneself. But there is always exceptions to the rule. The trouble is finding that one guy who thinks mediocrity is sexy...