You wnated to date unexclusivley and thats what hes doing my suggestion to you would be to stop pinning over him and go out yourself. it seems to me as if you are waiitng for someone that is not willing to commit and you already know this. he also cant read your mind. if you are not dating exclusivley and you would like to come on a trip with him ask him. seriously go out and have some fun.