Originally Posted by zas
i am in nearly the same situation! it sucks seriously that the guy im seeing also is too scared of getting hurt, and wont hardly give me a chance with him, so im currently "waiting" for him to get to the stage where he could handle a relationship. its very hard to get through to someone like that, you just gotta let him see for himself what a great person you are. obviously in your case this guy thinks you are playing games with him, my advice to you would be to let him cool off and think about things between you, dont call him.
if he wants to talk to you, he will call you! try not to act insecure about the current status of the relationship, putting pressure on him etc, i find this just winds my guy up because we have talked about it so many times. you can either wait for him to come to you, or move on...your choice!
also you could play it quite cool, men are normally up for somewhat of a challenge with women, have you been "chasing" him? if so, STOP!! if he likes you enough he will soon come to you.
hope this helps =)