This is something that you don't want to hear BUT here I go anyway.

I don't see how being in a relationship with anybody unexclusively can be healthy for anybodys emotional health?! Can you tell me that you are honestly happy knowing someone you care for and want a relationship with is having sex with other women with YOUR consent??? My lord woman you are braver than I.

I say drop the whole relationship and cut all the strings attached. You'll feel much better with a guy that makes you his #1 girl and not #5 or 6.

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One day the Moon said to me, "If he makes you cry, why dont you leave him?" I looked up at the Moon and said, "Moon would you ever leave your sky?"