it's easy to tell her that, "let the fool go, honey, you can do better", but y'all need to put yourself in her situation. it's partly her fault as well as his, they see each other from time to time, and they have fun, when HE'S not seeing her, he supposedly sees other people. he's doing his thang. in her case, she's doing him and when he leaves, she simmers down and thinks about him. she's not going out thinking of herself but she's thinking of him. HER emotions are stronger than his. so that's why it's hard for her to realize that she doesn't need him when she doesn't have anyone else.

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