Just to clarify, I didn't say that you didn't care about him. I said that he probably doesn't really care that much about you.

IF (and notice that capitolization making that a BIG 'if'), you guys do decide to get to know each other as a couple, and he spends lots of time with you going out and having fun, then maybe that's showing that he's trying to put effort into a relationship. Keep in mind though that during this "getting to know each other" you'll have to withhold sex and sexual contact in order to know FOR SURE if he's really trying to get to know YOU. Cause if you decide to get 'back together' and are going out all the time and having sex, etc., you'll be thinking, "Awesome. He really cares about me" and he'll be thinking, "Awesome. I have a ****-buddy."

So if you ARE going to try to get back together, do it smartly. He really hasn't give you much reason to think that he's genuine so either make sure you know it this time or risk another heartache when he gets bored again.

Rod Steele