Ha ha.

Ravoerboy beat me to the punch. I was going to say the same. One is, who says you have to be with a girl? You may really, really want to be with a girl, so what are you doing about it? If you want to increase your chances you have to get out there. If you are really trying to be social and meeting girls, you are bound to find someone interested in you, so long as you keep trying. There's someone for everyone. You're going to strike out a few times, but you'll get hits every now and then. Homeruns may be rare, but if you don't step up to bat, you'll never hit the balls (no pun intended). And if you strike out too much, your aim is high. Do something to improve yourself or lower your standards.

And, yes, patience is a virtue.

Freddie

ps. Welcome.