The guy's a loser. When a girl takes a train to meet you, and you only spend one hour with her and leave to "play your xbox", that's a loser. When, AFTER you've ditched her and showed your worthlessness she even takes the time to call AND text you trying to find out what happened and you don't even have the decency to respond or hear her out (especially since YOU should be the one calling and apologizing to her for YOUR rude behavior), it should prove BEYOND A SHADOW OF A DOUBT that you're a loser.

I'd text him with a message similar to this . . .

"Go ahead and play with your xbox. You could've played with me, but not anymore. Game over."

Rod Steele