thanks you guys! lol i left him to it in the end, and after a whole load of upset and thinking decided to leave it, at which point he came online and said he had no credit so he couldnt reply, and didnt hear his phone cos it was in his bag. the reason he left was cos he has this thing with being public, he can get quite funny about it and gets scared which i do understand(i wont go into details), but im still in a mood about it and havent forgiven him. i currently have him crawling