I'd suggest just letting this ride out. I dont think this relationship is going to go towards marriage right now. But I would talk to her, let her know you miss your friendship. And leave it at that. Youve found someone else to share secrets with, which is great. Youre right, I wouldnt tell her anything personal, she would tell your brother not to hurt you, but theyre bound to share things.

Just let her know you miss the friendship. Chances are their relationship will be short lived. Let her know you'll be there for her. But remember blood is thicker than water! In this case you cant say, boys will come and go, friends are forever, cuase its your bro! In the meantime, just play it cool, dont get in the middle of anything going on between them!

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