Very well put billy and im proud of u raising them kiddies...im sure your a great daddy!My kids are my world, yes it gets stressful..i had 2 kids under the age of 1 as they are only 10mths apart from each other and sometimes i feel like pulling my hair out, but at the end of the day i wouldnt give them up for the world. The overwhelming love u feel for that child when u hold them in ur arms after birth is a feeling u cant describe ever..its magical and its purely a miracle...how anyone would want to give up that special moment is really beyond me and like u said billy..there are so many immature people out there having sex because they think its sooo cooool then when they find out they are pregnant they cry wolf and try to take the easy way out. Its like rape victims...dont get me wrong that is the worst possible thing for someone to go through and to know that ur pregnant from some bastards violent rage is out of order but still....a child has been created and its not their fault..if u couldnt cope with the fact ur child was a result of rape...then adopt.