There is no "way" it happens. There is no way to explain it no matter how many people may try. It is nature. I've said this before and I'll say it again. Just do it. Mother nature will kick in, and you'll just get "caught up" in the moment, and your brain will stop thinking, and you'll enjoy every second, and things will happen on their own.

Free your mind. Just do it. It will happen when it happens.

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Yeah... That's right.

-Billy