I'm in a similar situation - Peter and I have had half a dozen dates and in the past few weeks he has been pulling away a little bit. I will give you the advice that everyone has given me - BE BUSY and let him chase you, maybe things SHOULD be equal but they aren't, guys like to be the pursuer and the minute he thinks he's got you - he's over it.

Tonight I have a date with someone else - I plan to not answer my cell and be vague about my whereabouts - the guy I am going with tonight is a total player and will just be thrilled to have someone listening to him talk about himself so the fact I would rather be out with someone else won't even matter.

*sigh* the things we do for love...

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