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Originally Posted by jslaughter
I'm in a similar situation - Peter and I have had half a dozen dates and in the past few weeks he has been pulling away a little bit. I will give you the advice that everyone has given me - BE BUSY and let him chase you, maybe things SHOULD be equal but they aren't, guys like to be the pursuer and the minute he thinks he's got you - he's over it.
As a guy, I completely disagree with this. I (and every other guy that I talk to) HATE stupid head games like this "be busy" crap. You wanna find out what's up, ask him. Plain and simple. When a girl starts to play head games, I just consider her to be a ****ing retard and not worthy of a relationships if all she wants to do is play these games to see who "wins". Same with every guy I've spoken to. Any time a girl all of a sudden gets "busy" and stops calling or returning my phone calls in a prompt fashion, I say it's not worth it. I'm not going to waste my time and energy pursuing someone if they are so busy I wouldn't even be able to have a normal relationship with them.
I say call him and ask him. Or just say, "Hey. We've gone out a couple times. I haven't heard from you though in a little while. You still want to go out?" If he skirts around the issue just say, "Allright. Bottom line, I like you. I think you're a fun person. But I'm tired of being the one to call all the time. So if you wanna go out again, give me a call. If not, that's cool too and thanks for the fun dates we had."
I HATE head games.
Rod Steele