I agree with you all the way sfalexi, can't stand those head games! In my experience I find girls enjoy the chasing games more than men as in the majority of situations the ball is almost always in the girl's court and it is her that seems to be in control. It gives a girl great confidence to know that she has a man wrapped around her finger who is willing to do whatever she pleases. As a guy I would love to see a girl avoiding all the mental games and just coming out about how she feels. It would make life so much easier! I do feel however that the mind games are a natural part of the attraction process between men and women and we are forced to conform to the rules to a certain degree in order to be successful.

I feel the best thing you can do in this situation is just call him, say you'd like to meet up again but that you were wondering why you hadn't heard from him in such a long time. Tell him you're interested in seeing him more but don't go too overboard with regards to your feelings - don't want to scare him away! Be sure and let us know how things go!

- Mark