you wanna go for the independent girl, because gathering what you've said the clingy girl just gets annoying, and i can see why...it is extremely irritating when guys do it to me. its basically trial and error! but i spose you could tell the type of girl she would be likely to be by the way she is around you, like someone you met for example. what i mean is a girl who isnt constantly calling, goes out and has fun, has a job...etc etc. but not out ALL the time, someone who you feel has a good balance.

im not making any sense am i =S