ok so thanks all of you for your responses. I have to agree that I hate head games I wouldn't want someone to do that to me.. anyway curiosity got the better of me and I e-mailed him to see what was up and why I hadn't heard from him and he said he wasn't into it 100% and didn't want to go out again... oh well bummer but what can I do? I am glad he was honest and didn't just continue to ignore me.... SO now I have a new question for th eguys or girls to I guess... If you didn't know whether or not you were really into somone would you make out with them and then decided or would you wait to make out with someone until you knew for sure so no one got there feelings hurt? See he made out with em and we had all these great dates and I can't kiss somone the way he kissed me if I am not into them so I don't really get what happened. DO guys just do things so differently?