****s sake cybog i never said i dont like the advice given on these boards, i DID listen to you guys, but this is something which I had to learn for myself ok?! you go find a bloody quote that says i didnt like the advice. in those words. yes it is the same guy, and the internet thing is too complicated and whatever, ive just got home from work and been in school all day and im tired and snappy so ARGH