I have brought this subject up before but I guess Im just really curious about the whole concept of dating a married man. Whats the attraction?
Are we afraid to date someone who is free due to commitment issues? Or is it the allure of being caught and the taboo that makes women and men do this?

In away, I can totally understand the attraction.. its forbidden and even some what romantic but my catholic guilt and my mind both say the same thing... MARRIAGE VOWS ARE THE REAL DEAL.. you stood before god and your family and friends and said... DEATH DO US PART... I mean, isnt that huge? You swore yourself.. all of you.. to someone doesnt that mean anything?

If any of you are married out there I would love to hear your thoughts about this... ever thought about it? Did you act on it? and the big question... WHY?
I think this is a very interesting subject and in all truthfullness.. I have been there. I have never really acted on it.. but I thought about it.

Please take this for what it is.. dont bitch me out becuase I am asking .. its an honest question and I think we all can be adult about it. I know the obvious.. its wrong.. we all know that.. i want to hear from people who are or have been thinking about it and what you did? :

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