Problems are nothing but oppurtunities, remember that. I know where you are. I thoroughly checked out the Navy once before. I'd be in it right now if it wasn't for my recruitier trying to force me into a job class I didn't want, but I digress. Take a step back, keep an eye on the long term and think about what will truly better yourself. If you really believe the military to be the answer then there is nothing stopping you. Job? You can walk out. No biggie there. Kid? Now here is where I see your biggest hesitation but you included a solution in your previous posts. If you're going to be going into the Navy you don't NEED and, in fact, SHOULDN'T be fighting for full custody. Figure out exactly what you need and go for it. Worry about the route AFTER setting the destination.

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