heres my deal with all of this, i did exactly this same thing. It did not work out for me. She told me the same thing, that she was not rdy...... couple months went by, then we started to get serious... Guess what happend next. The ex came back into the picture and she dropped me like a bad habit.. I say forget about her, if its meant to be it will happen. Make her persue u for a change. Women love a challenge, if they know they can have u they will keep you hangin unless there really interested in u. Im not woman hating but from personal exp. u just have to move on be her friend but dont pass up chances to go on dates with other people. Trust me if shes worth anything she will be ready alot sooner. Right now she has a grip on u, she knows your waiting so she will sulk for a lot longer knowing your on the back burner for her... U being used as a security blanket. Stand up and reject that. Wait without waiting. Good luck your gonna need it.