Why... did... you... push... him... away? Anyway, since he's asking for space, give it to him. If he's still interested, he'd contact you. And what do you mean by "I got the ump"?

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Clarity of mind means clarity of passion too; this is why a great and clear mind loves ardently and sees distinctly what it loves. -- Blaise Pascal (1623 - 1662)