we have had an on off relationship for 2 years BUT we have never officially been a couple. His longest relationship was 7 months, and i drove him into the arms of her, he ended up staying with her that long to teach me a lesson. the thing is, i think he is the one, he is the only one who i feel complete with, and before him i had a 3 year relationship. He hasn't said he wants to get back with her, but he hasn't said he doesn't want to. I have tried to leave him for good so many times, but every time he comes back and each time i think that it might be for good. Everytime he ends up with someone else. He texted me the other night, saying how sorry he was to mess me about, and that he does care for me and doesn't want to loose me. if that is true then i think , why doesn't he want to be with me. he is in the army, and reckons now that he doesn't want a girlfriend where he is from, because he is away from home sometimes for a long time. he wanted to text me tomorrow and say what is happening, at first i thought even if he didn't bother not to worry because he isn't going to give me what i want. but he always comes back, and i am not strong enough to tell him to leave me alone. i suppose i will just have to wait, and keep telling myself i am not a hure and if he wants me then he has to be my bf. if he really wants me then he will come, i guess...